Get ready for an awesome birth control series of the basic, necessary facts for each method by Molly! She has just agreed to help me out, and she’s already making the most useful, interesting posts! I’m so lucky to have her.
My Paragard experience:
I originally got the Paragard so I could stop taking Yaz (as I have several factors that increase my chance of stroke, etc.). Two years after I had the Paragard inserted I started taking Yaz again (without having the Paragard removed). So here is my experience broken down:
Insertion:
I’ve not had children. They gave me a suppository pill that was meant to soften my cervix. I was surprised when I picked it up from the pharmacy because it was not a smooth oblong pill. I was like a hexagon with sharp edges. NOTE PILL MANUFACTURERS: IF YOU’RE MAKING A SUPPOSITORY MAKE IT AS PLEASANT TO INSERT AS IS POSSIBLE. It wasn’t pleasant but it wasn’t the worst experience I’ve ever had. Same goes for the actual insertion. My work wanted me to come in that night and I said “Well I’ve just had something shoved through my cervix so I’m going home to take a nap.”
Cramps:
After having the Paragard inserted I had severe cramping 24/7 for the first year. I was having cramps equal to my previous worst cramps every minute of the day and during my periods I would occasionally fall on the ground in pain. Four years later I still have worse pain than pre-Paragard and cramp for at least two weeks out of the month.
Bleeding:
I’d been taking Yaz age 14 to 20 and had always had normal-light, regular periods. For the first six months I spotted heavily every day and had 10 day HEAVY periods. After that they settled a bit but not much. I ended up going back on the Yaz after two years due to the cramps. Two years after going back on Yaz (still having the Paragard) I spot frequently and my body tries to have its period every TWO WEEKS UGH.
Can your partner feel it?
I have had two partners notice the Paragard. One I had had sex with prior to having the Paragard inserted and the next time I had sex with him he immediately said “Did you get an IUD?” That guy was circumcised. My (at the time) long term partner was uncircumcised and only occasionally noticed it with deeper penetration/in certain positions.
Your mileage may vary. Maybe I have a lower cervix. Maybe those partners were more sensitive.
End feelings:
I don’t particularly like the Paragard. It has made me more uncomfortable/in pain with my body. HOWEVER, I refuse to have it removed. It is a guaranteed 10-12 years of birth control that if for some reason **cough** REPUBLICANS **cough** I can no longer get birth control from my insurance plan THAT I PAY FOR then it can’t be ripped from my body FOR NOW. I know this last bit might seem too political. Don’t care. I still recommend considering IUDs to other women. My experience seems atypical and I tend to be more sensitive to things than most people.
(via themidwifeisin)













